So, God is not in charge or control?
I thought you said you didn't believe in God. Or was it that you didn't believe God was knowable? I forget, which is it? The point is I understand that no matter what my answer is to your question, you will probably find something with which to disagree and we will carry on with more post after post. I'd rather not spend my time being a virtual cat toy.
Do you accept the Catholic doctrine of "free will".
CATECHISM OF THE CATHOLIC CHURCH
1730 God created man a rational being, conferring on him the dignity of a person who can initiate and control his own actions. "God willed that man should be 'left in the hand of his own counsel,' so that he might of his own accord seek his Creator and freely attain his full and blessed perfection by cleaving to him."
Man is rational and therefore like God; he is created with free will and is master over his acts.