You must live in a very polite part of the world. My wife and I had a child 3 years ago, 14 years after our previous child. We had so many people say rude comments to us and ask if it was a mistake. People assume everyone is using BC. They had no idea of how hard we had prayed for that child.
Rude comments deserve rude replies,* like mind your own damn business idiot*...:O) and keep on walkin.....