How often do you go to Church? And what denomination is it??
I don’t see what does have to do with anything, but I’m a Southern Baptist and I go to church 3 times a week (Sun morning, Sun evening, Wed evening) plus I teach Sunday school to an adult class. Also I grew up in Spain, was a Catholic for about 30 years, until I found freedom in Jesus. No man (priest) should be able to hold man-made rules over your head.
Only the Way, the Truth, and the Light, can reveal the path for each individual. We all are at different points looking at the same focus.
Love ya.