Wrong. Calvinists believe children or those who die before birth are saved exactly the same way you and I are saved -- by grace.
We can't earn our salvation. Babies can't earn their salvation.
Grace is the supernatural act of God whereby He brings to Himself those who are His. God determines the length of our days. God is responsible for those babies; He is responsible for their short lifetimes. We can be confident He brings them all to Himself.
It's the Roman Catholic who worries that if a child is not baptized he will spend eternity in purgatory, away from the face of God.
Barbaric.
Wrong. We can be confident He brings them all to Himself.
I think we've been here before, but I'm not sure. Are you saying:
- All babies who die are elect? Or:
- Non-elect babies who die are changed to elect.
Certainly not this Catholic, nor any of the Catholics I interact with. Perhaps you are referring to some irreligious or former Catholics.