Part of the problem here is that people are assuming if you’re against contraception, you are forcing people to have kids.
Nope.
If for some good reason, you don’t wish to have any more kids, the good Lord gave you an easy, natural way to do that, to which the Church does not object: DON’T HAVE INTERCOURSE DURING FERTILE PERIODS.
That’s it. And if you can’t do that simple thing, I may well wonder what is wrong with your level of self-control. Do you also eat pizza at funerals? Do you also belch in Church?
Self control is different for everyone some are better than others, that’s why we have druggies and sex addicts.