I think the point is one of those “haterz gonna hate” kind of things.
People who hate the Catholic Church will always have an abundance of clubs with which to beat us, I’d be thrilled to be verbally abused about something I actually believe rather than the abominable cover-up and pervert shuffle.
There are plenty of threads like that. Shall I ping you? 8~)
But try not to frame the discussion in such personal terms as "verbally abused."
Disagreement is not abuse, no matter how much Rome insists it is.
Non-Catholics wouldn’t have any clubs to beat the Catholic church with if it didn’t give it to them.
The church’s inept dealing with this situation is what gives people ammunition. They only have themselves to blame.