[metmom]

Of course I remember it.

But that’s not an answer to the question.

When does it change and if it’s the literal body and blood of Christ, why doesn’t it look like it?

[D-fendr]

Of course I remember it.

Good. Then we're getting close to one of your questions. Does the word "Epiclesis" in your Catholic upbringing ring any bells? Or, do you remember anything similar to: Bless and approve our offering; make it acceptable to you, an offering in spirit and in truth. Let it become for us the body and blood of Jesus Christ, your only Son, our Lord.