Heh... Well, many decisions in life have little to do with your “deity” as you say... Really, you need to get over that part of it...God will help you if you believe, but if you are struggling, do things on your own. The difference at this point is that you do what is right and work toward the other - which you do not want to go right now...
Either way, there is right and wrong in most daily decisions. They may be only job decisions or they may be decisions that relate to Right or Wrong. You will know the difference and make the correct choice. Even on Job decisions, you can make the correct decision with help (praying helps).
Really what I am talking about is your day to day life. Live it honestly and speak honestly, and you will find a real difference in how you are accepted. Tell the truth even if embarrassing... Your co-workers will respect you and accept you. You will build connections that will last a lifetime if you get the reputation of honesty...
Try and name some of those decisions which you make, where you do so, completely ignoring how they might affect the relationship between you and your “personal deity”, and are simultaneously completely independent of the Golden Rule.
This is getting interesting!