From the desire of being esteemed by my spouse, Deliver me, Jesus.
From the desire of being lovedby my spouse, Deliver me, Jesus.
From the desire of being consulted by my spouse, Deliver me, Jesus.
From the fear of being forgotten by my spouse, Deliver me, Jesus.
That others may be loved more than I by my spouse, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be esteemed more than I by my spouse, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be praised and I unnoticed by my spouse, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
Cool, huh? Now maybe it will work.
Hmmm.
Or you could just smack him one.