I posted something earlier this week that ties in nicely to your theme. Substitute "humanitarianism" for "love" and you'll see what I mean:
The Bible teaches us that, in terms of its content, love is always defined by the law (Rom. 13: 8-10). Since love clearly should be resident in every believing home, in every Christian marriage, this means that the law should always be seen as love’s beautiful twin sister, the two of them never separated.
-- from the thread Ten Commandments [in marriage]
Our Pastor teaches that TRUE Love wants only the highest and best for your love ones or even enemies. That Highest and best is nothing less than the Person of Almighty God, God's saving grace and His will for that one for His glory.
I'll check out that thread... thanks! http://www.theignorantfishermen.com/2010/02/gods-highest-and-best-agape-love.html
http://www.theignorantfishermen.com/2010/02/stupid-that-follow-cupid-eros-love.html