” Don’t be silly.
Father and mother is Mom and Dads titles but I don’t call them that.
Matthew 23:9 And do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and he is in heaven.”
So in your mind, everyone who ever called their male parent ‘Father’ has committed sin.
“It’s really very simple, easy and clear unless complicated by false teachings and practices.”
Pot, meet kettle.
Don't worry about what may or may not be going on in my mind but worry what IS going on blatantly in your church.