Sorry, I see nothing irreconcilable about what the Bible says regarding mankind's God-given freedom to accept or reject the gift of eternal life through faith in Jesus Christ.
I am neither a Calvinist nor Armianist. That's not what this thread is about anyway.
Is this acceptance or rejection something you do?
if you believe you are saved by faith plus something else you do - regardless of what that something else is - then you are NOT placing your trust in Jesus Christ as your savior