[marajade]

i think all except john were married

[john in springfield]

Most of them probably were. In fact, the Bible seems explicit that most (or almost all!) of the original apostles except for Paul. He (at least at one point) is known not to have been married, as he explicitly states he is unmarried. He also says (in support of your point): "Don't we have the right to take a believing wife along with us, as do the other apostles and the Lord's brothers and Cephas?"