I went to a wedding at my parish. There were two Lesbians sitting across the aisle from me. The one in the suit kept throwing head head back and rolling her eyes as our pastor spoke about marriage. Some people should just show up for the party. And she practically had her head down the front of the bridesmaids dresses as they walked by. Especially the early developed 15 year old.
I hear you. Those people should just show up at the reception. It’s sad how we make up rules for ourselves and disregard the Commandments. It happens in my family too and it infuriates me.