If they COULD submit, but don’t, it is a real choice. If they CANNOT submit, because dead means dead and that is the only way we are described (and it isn’t), then they COULDN’T submit.
I say they WOULDN’T, and God foreknew that but did not compel it.
Yep. And Calvinism believes it's a real choice. Just because someone never will submit does not mean they don't have all of the equipment making it possible to do it the other way. Those who always resisted the Holy Spirit had every piece of equipment necessary in order to submit. They simply did not WILL to do so.