People are certainly wired differently and yes a lot is imprinted either pre-birth or not long after. However the way neural pathways work is - those we feed with imput continue to feed or provide input or apply belief to keep growing and intertwining with other parts of the brain so it is quite possible if a person allows their brain to believe that they are gay and then continue to entertain thoughts or involve themselves in that lifestyle then the brain will allow that attraction and it will seem to be part of “who they are”!
Cheers
Mel
OK I’m not trying to ruffle anyone’s feathers here. I’m using introspection more than I should, I guess.
I can name ten thousand things about females that make me happy to be alive (and a few that make me wish I was dead sometimes), but, sex with men, well, the idea just never occurred to me.
Given that, it seems to me that one would have to have some genetic predisposition to partake in such a bizarre act.
For me, it’s on par with having “sex” with animals. It ain’t happenin’.