Its funny how a celibate confessor who hears about the struggles of marriage from wives and husbands - and whose view is not jaded and skewed by his own role as a husband - can be a very good sounding board and typically knows far more about ALL aspects of marriage - save for the actual experience of sexual activity - than most people do.
Of course, your experience is limited since you have not enjoyed the sacraments and counsel administered by such priests.
Thankfully I have someone else to go to with my problems.