Read my post on obedience versus consent.
She was obedient to God’s will - God’s plan.
There is a difference and you folks keep trying to make her something she is not. She was, in the end, just a woman.
Who chose who - Mary or God?
Which one has the power to answer prayer?
Which one is God?
Answers, in order, God, God, and God.
So why the infatuation with her?
God chose Mary for His plan and Mary consented to His plan.
So why the infatuation with her?
What a strange choice of words, infatuation.
God choose Mary and Mary choose God. Free Will.