I sympathize with your wife as I have been to quite a few CINO churches in my time (break out the guitar...ugh). Still, we all must "Strive to enter through the narrow gate...". I wish that narrow gate was the Catholic Church for your wife. I also agree on the not bickering. Why do we do that? LOL.
Why do we do it? The answer is obvious. And I offer it here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQFKtI6gn9Y
“I also agree on the not bickering. Why do we do that? LOL.”
IMHO, it would not be an issue, but for the fact that -— wrongly and against RCC doctrine, I know -— in many RC sub-groups (Hisanic, in my experience) Mary has replaced Christ as pseudo goddess.
Yes, I know that is not RC official doctrine.
But as a practical matter, if you ask the average Southwest USA Roman Catholic who they worship, they’ll tell you “Maria.”
There is a fine line between exhaltation and worship, and it’s being crossed.
That heresy has brought attention to issues like this, which would otherwise be a mere intellectual disagreement, akin to whether one should call Mary “Mother of God” or “Mother of Christ.”