That's a very interesting post.
I venture to say though, that it is a perfect description of just why Christians balk at the claim that mormons can, as you do, describe Christians as "other Christians."
I challenge you to present a Christian faith, an honest Christ-based faith, that holds these precepts as you describe them:
1. Theological consistency is less important to Latter-day Saints than it may be for other Christians.
2. Mormonism is not so much a system of doctrines as it is a way of life
3. To be a "Mormon" in good standing is more a question of conduct and attitude than theology
Please say if you believe that Christ would accept your definition of Christian within this framework and why.
*”Your mileage may vary”