You presume and assume way too much beyond any practical knowledge you may have of Catholic men—and women.
I suggest that you stay with what you know as fact and start with your own community of believers first. You would be far more credible that way.
You have no practical, factual knowledge of what practicing Catholic men—and women—”want” and are “happy” with in their relationship with the Son of the Living God.
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Sure I do...I know a number of ex-Catholic men as well as current Catholic men who do not attend any of your churches...