Look at it like this. Almost any priest understands exactly what he's given up. They know sexual temptation, and sexual conflict, they've wrestled with those questions extensively as part of their formation. They aren't bloodless manikins. But they have dealt with it and sacrificed their personal gratification to be the spouse of the Church instead. So really in a way they have been there, but not any longer, just like your example of a better drug counselor.
That's yet another reason, by the way, that homosexuals shouldn't be priests. They do not sacrifice marital love, sex and children to serve God (in fact you could argue they're actually advancing the likelihood of gaining their desires). They don't even understand what they're giving up.
Sounds like Fr. Ed has a place with the angels. Best to you too.
Maybe, but I'm of the opinion that one can't really understand something one has never experienced. You can't explain a roller coaster ride to someone who's never been on one. You can't explain color to a blind person or music to a deaf one.
to be the spouse of the Church instead. ...
Please don't take this the wrong way, but the Church isn't a woman. And there is absolutely NOTHING on this planet more difficult to understand than a woman. Nothing.
Sounds like Fr. Ed has a place with the angels.
I certainly hope that's true. He was a fine man and my niece and nephew miss him terribly.
I bid you a pleasant evening ma'am.
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