“As I understand your direction on this, you are saying that if I pray to Mary and ask her to ask Jesus to answer my prayer, He must do so because He has to obey His mother. Is this what you mean?”
Nope. If I ask Mother Mary for an Evil thing, why would Our Lord have any interest in helping even assuming His Mother asked?
You wouldn't expect Mary to actually ask Jesus for something evil would you?
And yet, you didn't answer the rest of my question. Are you ascribing Mary the same powers as Almighty God?