Much of what you wrote is partial truth twisted to appear to be a horror show. That seems to be your tactic. I have a son serving a mission. I think I have a better perspective than you do.
I provided a link to the material I pasted on this thread, which was written by a former mormon. Sounds like you disagree with him or her.
Any group that practices mind control IS a horror show.
The LDS practice many forms of mind control, as is outlined
by the rules missionaries must follow, which we could post here for everyone to see and decide for themselves.
As to your son, I’m sure you are as proud of him as a father can be. I appreciate that wherever I see it. Sons need their fathers to be proud of them.
best,
ampu