which Mass are you referring to exactly? you mentioned lunch time mass which i cannot go to due to time and proximity. i live in a rural area so our Parish is a bit away from us. i really dont think you should judge as you obviously do not have all the facts of the situation
anyhow have a good evening
Really, if you give it an honest try you'll find it's not that hard. I travel a lot, to extremely rural areas, and I have found that I enjoy working out how to make it to Mass. It becomes a challenge. Especially in rural South Georgia which is not what you'd call a traditionally Catholic region (and usually the parish is the only one in the county or even in two counties.)