Your 100% correct to be angry, my friend, but if you’re using this as a reason to abandon, or remain separated from, the Church, you must ask yourself whether you’re part of the solution, or part of the problem. In all seriousness...See tagline.
I have never been a part of the Catholic Church. And I would never be part of a church that I would need to change in order for it to meet my standards.
The church is supposed to be such that I change.
Go figure.