Well ... this is personal and I'll tread lightly.
It seems to me that your presence on this thread suggests that you do care. A little, anyway. And your statement in #51 is precisely an expression of having been "given scandal" ... in this case, by the administration of ND. A quick letter to the Bishop or phone call to the chancery would not be out of line.
You’re right I do care. Here we are fighting this fight and a group like the Catholic Church could swing a big stick.