I am late to the thread and simply fascinated by the discussion. I was ready to suggest the Episcopal church to Jilliane myself, but saw you two fine ladies had already proposed it as a better fit than the Catholic Church.
better yet, I would suggest that she pray and convert more deeply into the Catholic faith.....leave it to me to be different.
But jilliane, here's where I am absolutely serious:
Your ideas have already been tried. They failed. I was there - I was a sixth-generation Episcopalian and in that church for 47 years - and I saw it happen. The fruits were sin, misery, the probable loss of souls to utter unbelief, and the destruction of a denomination.
You need to rethink this. Preferably with a spiritual director.
Episcopalians Ordain Lesbian Priest
I'd say it was just a coincidence, but this sort of nonsense has become so common in that church, it's an outrage-a-minute.