Posted on 12/10/2008 8:18:42 AM PST by Alex Murphy
Unless the LORD builds the house,
those who build it labor in vain.
Unless the LORD watches over the city,
the watchman stays awake in vain.
It is in vain that you rise up early
and go late to rest,
eating the bread of anxious toil;
for he gives to his beloved sleep.
Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD,
the fruit of the womb a reward.
Like arrows in the hand of a warrior
are the children of one’s youth.
Blessed is the man
who fills his quiver with them!
He shall not be put to shame
when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.
One of my favorite Psalms. :o)
In these kinds of discussions, why is the working assumption always that Mama doesn't want some herself?
The idea of chicks who don't "want some" themselves is just completely at odds with my own experience.
This family is completely self-supporting, so they’re just exercising their freedom in a what is supposed to be a free country. I don’t think it will catch on widely, so I don’t think we need to worry about the impact on society of excessively fast population growth. I’m much more concerned about all the crack and welfare addicts who keep popping out babies, who the taxpayers then have to support, and who mostly grow up to be crack/welfare addicts, gangbangers, and breeders of more of the same.
How dare they create these little parasites to suck up the resources from precious mother Earth!
/end sarcasm
Crack/welfare addicts will soon be recognized as our nation’s bravest.
:/
The Duggars are indeed a BLESSED family!!
I understood that about 5 arrows fit in a quiver. Therefore, following the analogy, 5 would fit the bill. But, the real meaning is trusting the Lord to send the number of kids which He wants the family to raise. I know people who don't use birth control and only have 3 kids and I know people who don't use birth control and have quite a few more than that.
Or is it none of our business?
Yes, it is NONE OF OUR BUSINESS. I get very irritated at non-Christians defining Christian behavior and then getting mad at us for not living up to that definition.
Why aren’t welfare mammas with multiple kids to multiple sperm donors known as “quiverfuls”???
Would commenitng on those choices make it part of this writer’s business?
“I don’t think it will catch on widely, so I don’t think we need to worry about the impact on society of excessively fast population growth.”
Most women’s bodies simply wouldn’t let them crank out that many babies. My mother had to slow down after getting pregnant three times in three years and miscarrying the third one.
1. There is nothing wrong with wanting OR HAVING a large family - IF you can support them yourself. If you want 4-10, and can raise them responsibly, go for it.
2. I know several families of 3-6 kids, where he wanted more and she said “enough”.
There should be a veto of whomever says “that’s enough” gets that vote. Whether the man OR the woman says “stop”, it stops. Anything else is unfair.
3. I only have 2 myself, debating whether or not to have more. Yet I’ve had feminists who thought it was wrong to have more than 1, or that any woman who had any was somehow doing a disservice to herself and the planet. This article acts as if having kids is horrible - and that the writer’s 2 are barely excusable.
Although I cannot find the citation, one historian or anthropoligist claims that modern Greeks are entirely descended from Christian forebearers. The elite classical Greeks stopped having children and the Christians did not.
Demographics are the future.
I love these big families.
We’ve had 8 spread out over 19 years (last one in May).
We both decided this is our limit - physically, emotionally, and financially.
If we didn’t feel that way, we might have thought of more.
If we thought this way after one or two, we would have stopped then.
Not everyone is the same - not all couples are the same.
I get tired of those who think there is a “one size fits all” answer to every situation.
A couple wants to have more kids? They can handle it? Great!
A couple wants to stop? No more? Great!
"Geeze Lady, I like a good cigar ... but I take it out of my mouth every once in a while"
I know a lot of families that are quiverfullers. All of those kids are the future conservatives of the US! Hopefully, the libs won’t catch on. :)
I know a lot of families that are quiverfullers. All of those kids are the future conservatives of the US! Hopefully, the libs won’t catch on. :)
Looks like a very comfortable retirement plan.
People vary tremendously in their ability to procreate. A lot of people just do not have the energy to even make and raise one child, barely enough to live, themselves. Others are fountains of energy, both for having and raising children. Most fall in between the two extremes.
Though it is seldom openly pondered, people seem to be inherently aware of both how much energy they, and those they want to marry have. A subconscious calculation of childbearing potential.
This begins with just appearance, males being adept at discerning “fertility beauty” in female body proportions, such proportions being indicative of degrees of fertility. Then personality and energy level come into play as well, couples measuring each others stamina and endurance in ordinary activities.
Much has to do with the “frequency” of energy as well. Some people seem to be designed for very different tempo in their lives. Some are grandparents around the age of 40, others in their 70s. Marrying someone with a different speed can be problematic.
And obviously, there is an age matching window for most people, which strongly limits the field of potential spouses, with a few exceptions.
All told, procreation isn’t easy.
I have seven kids, and I think I could find the time for a couple of more (definitely not in the works, however), but eighteen? I've read of a couple of other large families like this one, and think you have to be a bit nuts to have that many kids.
Frankly, I'm ready to enjoy grandkids, and wondering where we're going to put all the in-laws and grandkids when they arrive!
“Hopefully, the libs won’t catch on. :)”
Sorry, but they Liberals got there many decades before the Conservatives.
What government subsidizes, government gets. Government subsidized unmarried women having children (bastards) and got lots of ‘em.
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