I will respond to your post sometime today after I get home from Mass and have taken care of my family responsibilities. Meanwhile—hoping I am not breaking any FR forum rules—I refer you to a recent “vanity” thread offered by Judith Anne entitled “I’m Taking a Break....”
I think that thread speaks volumes for Judith and to those who responded to it.
Hopefully, you’ll take a look, if you haven’t already done so.
Meanwhile, I am at peace and I trust that you are as well.
I am at peace since I have God's Holy words as my final authority, not the false traditions of men.