As far as you wishing she had taken others with her...why should that be her burden or duty?
If these whom you list are so bad, why wish them upon others? Out of bitterness towards her? Is that it?
For all we know, she may wish to avoid them or whatever their ideas are, as much as you seemingly do. If that were the case, then you and she would have things in common, other than joint recognition of the basic tenets of Christianity?
She lied.