So...Why would you care which one has it right?
(asked with kind tone and manner, which does not translate through keyboard)
There is a very personal reason, why I do not attend church...I dont actually know you well enough, to give that reason...perhaps through talking with you further, I will come to feeling more comfortable and will tell you, via PM, if that would be ok...thanks for asking tho, and being concerned...
Your tone and manner came through, just fine....