***Relax,Dear Brother.
The reformed view of God is that God has already saved them ,thus they have psychologically convinced themselves that they are guided by the Holy Spirit that even when they sin God has given them the grace to do so as being part of His plan. ***
A fitting description. I shall endeavour to relax, as you have so fittingly prescribed. With 5 little kids at home, I may not be able to fully acquaint myself with that state, however much I atempt it.
Alright,forget about relaxing!
5 little kids is a fine example of a large Catholic family.
Glory be to God!