No, you don’t get it. You’re separating Jesus the Second Person of the Trinity from Jesus the man. What part of “and the Word became flesh and dwelt among us” don’t you get? Are you not aware that the Word is the Second Person of the Trinity? Mary did not “create” the Second Person of the Trinity, but He grew in her womb, she gave birth to Him, and she nursed Him. That makes her the mother of the Second Person of the Trinity. “The Word became flesh.” I know it’s hard to imagine Mary changing God’s diapers, but that’s Incarnational Reality.
I’m pretty sure Manfred understands that.