“BTW, RM, isn’t this statement “So you want someone who belongs to a church but doesn’t ‘really’ belive in it?” mind-reading?”
No, that’s a question. Notice the ‘?’
A question would NORMALLY be worded “So DO you want someone who belongs to a church but doesn’t ‘really’ believe in it?” Your statement omits the ‘DO’, making it a declaration and not a question in spite of the ‘?’ at the end.