I’m not sure I’ll ever be able to look back on the years I struggled with infertility as a gift. To be terribly honest, all I can feel when I think of those years of tests, and medicines, waiting, and miscarriage, is pain. Thank God I did finally have a child in my late 30s (after being married 16 years...talk about a change!) I know I’m supposed to be thankful to God in all things, but it’s going to take many more years before I have the perspective to look on that experience with authentic gratitude.
I can see your point.