“what do you think is “laying of the hands” all about? Empty ritual? Magic?”
I suppose it depends on what the “layer on of hands” believes he/she is doing. It is not empty ritual to corporately, by the Holy Spirit, identify someone who has been called of God for a ministry by laying on of hands, but to think that one is specially possessed with the authority to pass on the Holy Spirit to another is to believe that Benny Hinn is special too.
No one believes that! The priest merely petitions the holy Spirit to come and affects a change a sacrament.
From the Orthodox Divine Liturgy:
The priests, who considers himself a sinner, humbly give praise to God on behalf of the congregation and asks that, in His goodness, His Spirit comes and affects the change.
No hocus-pocus, no magic, no arrogance.