Ok. I think I see at least this part.
So, a “natural man” could not have compassion and help an elderly lady carry out her trash or give a stranger the extra fifty cents he needs to take the bus.
If someone can do that, then they must be “saved”.
I’m constructing charity and compassion into this - to step up from not sin to doing good on purpose as you can see.
Do you see where either I disagree or don’t understand your formulation?
I understand your confusion.
Let’s see if I can muddle things even more :>)
Yes, people do things for the betterment of others, but usually for their own benefit, also. The “good feeling” they get, the “brownie points” to declare to others, the merit badge they earn, etc.
All these things God calls refuse. They are no good. Garbage. They do not please God.
The good works I am refering to are those things God has for us to do. Only when we are in a regerated state do these demonstrate our faith. We do things because they are the “right” thing to do to PLEASE God, not man.
Muddled yet?