Now, now.
You can’t have it both ways. If the Elect wish to be the Elect, then the non Elect must wish to be the non Elect.
Even so, if the Elect wish to become the Elect, and God has preordained who the Elect are, when do the Elect tell Him? Before they were born?
No man is prevented from believing in Jesus Christ. But many men do not believe in Jesus Christ.
Do you think those men actually want to believe in Jesus Christ? If that's true, then why don't they? Do unbelievers wish to be who they are or someone else?
Because every unbeliever I know is perfectly happy being an unbeliever. In fact, many of them think Christians are nuts and they are "happy" not to be numbered among them.