Of course he did.
He said: God will put everyone in the correct spot. In the end everyone will be where they truly want to be. There won’t be anyone in hell saying, “I wish I had listened to Aunt Mrytle so I’d be sitting on a cloud somewhere playing a harp.” God is, after all, a God of love.
You said : Now you are saying that God listens to what we want? How Calvinist is that? Is your heart actually thawing and coming back to life?
No where in there does he say that God has to listen to us. You continue to invent straw men by putting words in people’s mouths that they do not say. I ask you again to quit.