Knowing myself as well as I think I do, I doubt I would have asked my question that way. I tend to word things very carefully when the issue is a sensitive one and I'm not trying to offend.
I do see your point, though. Words should always be chosen carefully.
My example was a bit contrived, and a bit crude ... but it serves to make the point. I didn't mean to suggest that you, personally, had done something like that. I have seen it done on this forum, and almost that bad. Sometimes it seems accidental, and sometimes it does not seem accidental.