There is no communication problem. You are telling me a story that sounds like a fairytale based on something you find convincing and I don't.
That's not remotely close to my construction on reality. What is your definition of a communication problem and how does this not fit your definition? Methinks the rest of us have a very different definition.
It is, no doubt true, that I have perhaps less than 0.00% influence on what you consider a fairytale. And, it does appear that REALITY TESTING ISSUES are smack in the middle of the dialogue.