When we put any thing or any one above that - including self - we are in deep spiritual error.
The second commandment is distant from the Great Commandment and I paraphrase it as: love our neighbors unconditionally..
As Jesus said in Matthew 22, the law and the prophets hang on those two commandments.
Again, to paraphrase: "if you get these two right, you won't sweat the details."
and "treat people the same way you want them to treat you," is the Law and the Prophets." [Mat 7:12]
INDEED.
Quite true and more briefly put than mine!
Thanks for your kind reply.