Anoreth's basilisk glare will drive off any but the most determined. (Which may not include the sweet Cuban boy ... he might be better for Elen :-).
When the little girls are older, I thought I'd fix up all the brothers with rifles, like the Last Ride of the Dalton Gang.
Males with guns keep the courting "civil" as they say in the South. I always thought my brother was a genius; he didn't get a loser in the bunch.