This article is good considering that I have just started to be educated to become a lay member of the Carmelite Third Order. Also I am going through a time of learning what God is calling me to be because I am not certain what He is directing me to chose. For those who are posting on this thread, pray for me.
I am a member of the Militia of the Immaculata and have been invited to join the lay Carmelites several times (my age is a consideration; I'm older than dirt ;-o). It is a beautiful Charism and I have given it serious consideration.
The Carmelites are a wonderful Order; I still wear my brown scapular always with my Miraculous Medal. I ask God's Mother to assist you in your decision.
And, may I make a suggestion? Please read "Father Elijah" which is a remarkable book and part of a Trilogy on the end times. It is available from any Catholic book site, Leaflet Missal on-line, or Catholic Company.com. It could be the "whisper" you are waiting to hear.
God bless!
Francis