I spoke to a very good, close priest friend of mine and he said that the children were adult and they would decide which direction they would go in. Just pray.
Fortunately, my kids and I are very close. They ahd some early problems but got over them and are married with children.
You and your wife are in my prayers.
Thanks. I took the kids to church every Sunday and religious training until they drifted towards their mother. I am sure she had nothing but the best to say. I wish I could have done more for them... I thought I did my best - took them as often as I could including almost every weekend for 12 years.