Nice little story you got going there, but the verse about Mary telling the servants to do as Jesus tells them has a parallel in the OT and means something else all together, and has to do with God, not Mary. The wording is pretty identical and with a little study you will find it.
There you go again, interpreting Scripture with Scripture instead of by the fables of men and magisteriums.
Mary as cookie-giver; as the instructor to God on earth! What foolishness. Mary is hardly mentioned in the Bible after Christ's birth. God granted her humility in order to be the mother of Jesus Christ. No doubt she would shudder at what has been said and done in her name.
Hey, you know what?
I take it back.
Pick on Mary all you like.