Ever hear of those "two soldiers hate each other so the sergeant sticks both soldiers in the same fighting hole until they get along"?
The counter-Blessed Virgin arguments that I get has no substance beyond, "you're wrong and you and She are stupid/evil damnation/ridiculous, etc.".
Not that I'm ever in a position to judge, but I'll bet money that there's a special place in Purgatory for all those who deny the intercession due to the Blessed Mother. Likewise, I'm sure there's something for me in my faults that I must say, "oops, I was wrong and I'm sorry" before Jesus will accept me into His company.
Catholics never put the Blessed Virgin before Jesus. The pillar of the Holy Eucharist stands much taller than the Blessed Virgin. But woe to the souls that ignore Her and worse for those who insult Jesus' Mom. It's one thing to remain indifferent and at least silent with no more negative output than just doubtful questions. It's vicious, though, to attack the genuine love for the first among Saints.
The argument is between you, Jesus, and His Mom.