Wonderful responses, AG. Just wonderful. We ARE only pilgrims here on this earth. Our home is with God and most of us long in our spirits to be there, but we have a purpose in lingering here.
I know I have changed over the years because of the indwelling Holy Spirit. I see things differently, I view people and circumstances in a new light. I am less judgemental and critical of people I love and am letting the Holy Spirit work whatever He needs to work in them instead of offering my own views (unless God prompts me). I was a very angry person throughout much of my life and God has tempered that (oh, I still get ticked off now and then, but it's nothing like it used to be). I know God's restoring power. Amen!
Truly, sanctification is a walk - it doesn't happen the moment our new life begins.