It might as well be. And saying it's not doesn't serve as proof otherwise. For the subjects of the example, it is arbitrary, and you've given no reason to suggest otherwise. It is foundational to you that there is no criteria or difference between who is elect or non-elect.
I do not consider being a "Calvinist" an essential to being a Christian.
And I consider it a big step back from Christianity with large potential of harm to the Church and the individual. I'm glad if it helps in your growth; I oppose it being taught as what Jesus taught.
I think what has occurred is a common development of taking a piece of truth and expanding it into a large untruth. The truth in this case in 'not by works' and the large untruth is the C&C god of pre-determinism. You have to look at where it takes you and clearly - to me and others - it takes you to a very different view of God.
thanks again..
Oy-Vey. Not even going to answer that any more. Go in peace.